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Pastor MadonnaButterfly   in reply to Starshine   on

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Hi, Starshine!~ How are you doing? It's been a long time since I've talked with you! I've missed you but have kept you in my heart, thoughts and prayers!~ Hope all is well for you~ Did you find a job yet? Talk with you soon!~ Have a great day!~ Much love, MadonnaButterfly~~~~
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Pastor MadonnaButterfly   in reply to Pastor MadonnaButterfly   on

Pastor MadonnaButterfly

I recently lost my Dad, he passed away 3 years ago. I think about him every day. I miss him so much. He was my best friend. I could talk to him about anything. My husband has recently been diagnosed with terminal liver cancer and doesn't have long to live. He is all that I have besides God and our dogs. This has been very difficult for me to deal with. The Dr. told me to expect to wake and find my Husband deceased. My Husband has lived a month now, passed what the Dr. said he would. My Trust and Faith is in Father God!~ My Husband has lost "85 pounds" in the last month. I struggle to find a cure or to help him live longer. He was on Chemo and it didn't do anything for him, there was no change in the vigorous growing cancer. I spend a lot of time in prayer. Though I'm an Ordained Pastor, I accept no money for what I was called to do, by Father God. Each month I struggle to pay the bills~ but Father God has made a way for me to get the bills paid. My Trust in Him has been strong and my Faith is strong as Iron.~ There is a tremendous amount of pressure upon me~ trying to cope with this the best that I can, trying to pay the bills, praying for and with others as well as for us, taking care of 9 dogs, getting very little emotional and financial support from his and my family, there's been no one to talk to besides God and when my Husband is awake I talk with him, I feel a deep loneliness. My close friends have departed from me, I don't think they know how to handle the stress from this situation. They were also close to my Husband.~ I feel frozen in time and despair.~ I pray for everyone when I pray, because I know that everyone is in need of prayer during this day and time.~ Amen~ Father God has a purpose for each of us to fulfill while we are upon this earth and He loves us each and everyone.~ He cares about how we feel and the struggles that we go through~ There may be times that we feel He doesn't care or that He is with us~ but He does and is!~ Sometimes when we are going through struggles and hardships in life...we do not understand why this is happening to us. Later, we understand that it makes us stronger and we pull closer to Father God which helps us to build our relationship with Him, to Trust Him and it allows Him to show us His strength and love for us during that time.~ Life is not always easy, we must make the most and best of it while we are here.~ Showing others compassion, understanding, forgiveness is planting a seed in their lives and helping ourselves at the same time. See forgiveness is not just for the other person, it's about ourselves...when we forgive others we are allowing God to forgive us of our wrongdoings as well.~ We can help ourselves and others just by being better people towards one another. We never know what someone else may be going through, giving them a smile or friendly conversation and lending them a listening and caring ear may be enough to help them feel better about themselves or to see another day!~ Call someone you haven't talked to in a long time, let them know you care and are thinking about them. It makes us feel good to know we are thought about and cared about~brighten their day and it will also brighten yours too!~ If someone you love or know is in a Nursing Home, go visit them let them know you care!~ That they are not forgotten.~ Spread the Kindness and Love, it will be contagious and will make this world a better place for all of us to live in~ the short time that we are here~! God Bless You!~ Have a wonderful day!~ God Loves You and So Do I !~~ Much love, Pastor MadonnaButterfly~~~~
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Anonymous40784   in reply to NoTsOpReTtYnOw   on

I'm suprised your father did not have your ex-boyfriend arrested for statutory rape.
He (bf) got off lucky.
Of course, he still has to 'pay' child support for this baby he help to create. This is whether he is working or not!!
I wish you the best.
In the future, please realize that we are planning a baby (whether consciously or unconsciously) everytime we have sex.
Next time, please use birth control 'plus' make the guy wear a condom.
I realize no one birth control is a 100% perfect.
Yet, abstainance is 100% perfect.

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Anonymous40784   in reply to muneca1021   on

Hey everyone how are u i know there is people out there that can help a single mother of 4

Aww...
I'm so sorry about that.
How long were you guys married?

hugs
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Anonymous40784   in reply to miss.keara   on

i dont need anything but clothes if anyone can help me please let me know i wear size 7

I do not have anything in your size.
I tried to do a one to one post but it would not let me post.
Take care.
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Anonymous40784   in reply to muneca1021   on

Hey everyone how are u i know there is people out there that can help a single mother of 4

Can the father provide these for them?
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Anonymous40784   in reply to Mom trying to stay strong   on

scam alerts: Scammer?A single mom in Danville, VA, posted a desperate message on aidpage last month

Aww...
Can you put in a child support for him?
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Anonymous40784   in reply to Mom trying to stay strong   on

scam alerts: Scammer?A single mom in Danville, VA, posted a desperate message on aidpage last month

Then you see, you already know the answer as to why she won't help.
Usually, us women already know the answer.

Where is the father of your other kids? Can he or his family help?
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Anonymous40784   in reply to Mom trying to stay strong   on

scam alerts: Scammer?A single mom in Danville, VA, posted a desperate message on aidpage last month

Hey,
Are all your children by your ex?
If not,that would be a problem for them.
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Anonymous40784   in reply to goodnewsforyou   on

scam alerts: Scammer?A single mom in Danville, VA, posted a desperate message on aidpage last month

ok,thanks
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Anonymous40784   in reply to Dobguy1   on

There are some pretty tough situations in here no doubt...Ive read alot of them and it

Well said.
Great advice!!!!!!!!!!
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Anonymous40784   in reply to goodnewsforyou   on

scam alerts: Scammer?A single mom in Danville, VA, posted a desperate message on aidpage last month

They may have some issues against you.
You never know what their son has told them. And, we know some men do lie.
When we get a certain age & start ailing in our bodies, many times children gets on their nerves.
Have they helped you in the past?
Have you helped them in the past?

The best way to find out why they won't help is to simple ask them?

I wish you the best.
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Anonymous40784   in reply to SammieJ   on

hard to think: why do I feel like such a p.o.s.? I try so hard and get nothin done to better myself. I

You are not a p.o.s.
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Anonymous40784  

Hi Aidpage friends. Effective on Monday (August 27,2012), I will have my account

Hi Aidpage friends.
Effective on Monday (August 27,2012), I will have my account closed.
I am being obedient to the Lord.
I have enjoyed all the people I have come to call friends.
I wish each & everyone of you the very best.

God bless you.
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Anonymous40784   in reply to positive thoughts   on

Hello, Wow can't believe how time flies! August 24 is my 27th wedding anniversary.

Congrats
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thank you

thank you
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Anonymous40784   in reply to pmrobin   on

For people who live in GEORGIA

Contact the DAV (Disabled American Veterans).
They can provide transportation for him.
Best wishes
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Anonymous40784   in reply to jsgain   on

i need some good opinions. i come from a very dysfunctional family.five years ago was the

Just send everyone a note or an email saying:

" I apologize for any misunderstanding we had that day. Please accept my deepest apology. I would like to make amends so we can move on as a family should.
May God bless every one of you."

You are welcomed to copy/paste the above & send it to them.

Please know that by that statement you are not admitting any wrong. You are merely apologizing for the misunderstanding.
Its easier to send this note & make amends with them than it is to continue this rift.
If they do not accept this note, then don't worry about it.
You did all you could.
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Anonymous40784   in reply to marymauldin88   on

marymauldin88

Lord,
Please provide for the needs of this family.
Provide housing or house improvements for them.
Provide finances for them.
Thank You for answering this prayer. Amen.
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Anonymous40784   in reply to jsgain   on

i need some good opinions. i come from a very dysfunctional family.five years ago was the

Don't lie.
Tell your mother that God don't like liars in His sight.
Do send Ms. Nasty & your brother a note apologizing for any 'misunderstanding' that may have occurred.
Let Mom know that you have done this.
If that does calm the situation,then good.
If it does not, then chalk it up to a bad experience & just let it go.
It won't be worth you worrying about it.

Hope this helps
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